The Quiet Strength of Speaking Up
A few days ago during a workout session, I found myself thinking less about my own performance and more about someone else’s struggle. There is a lady in our workout group who tries very hard. She shows up consistently, pushes herself, and genuinely wants to improve. But the pace of the workouts is often too intense for her current fitness level. Many times, she spends a large portion of the session resting and trying to recover while the rest of us continue. For a while, I observed quietly. I kept wondering whether there was a better way to structure the sessions so that everyone, regardless of fitness level, could participate more fully. Eventually, I decided to respectfully raise the issue with the coach. I suggested having different pace options during the workout: a normal pace, a moderate pace, and a slower pace. Not to reduce the challenge for stronger participants, but to create room for everyone to feel included. The coach explained that they usually slow things down t...