Prioritise yourself

 

^{This week I pondered about prioritizing myself visa a vie other relationships, it can be over whelming 😟to be everything for every on all the time. Now leave alone the obligations you are born with as a daughter, sister and maybe an auntie to my nieces and nephews. Now let’s concentrate on the social relationships we are choosing to be part of currently. I have friends that will be there through thick and thin, through good and bad and these I offer the highest level of priority in terms of time, energy and focus. I also have seasonal friends, they are there when all is good and seem to disappear when you need them and when they need you, they will stop at nothing to get it from you. To these friends I approach with caution and give them less of my time and energy. I also have friends that have made changes in their lives and now they have other priorities instead of me and that is fine. But I have to create healthy boundaries for these friends because if not watched they will leave a vacuum and a wound I never knew I had to heal. From time to time I take stock of my friendships and make cautious decisions on how much time, energy and money to spend on them because I want full filling relationships.}