Gratitude

 

The deep appreciation I feel for having the support of my family, and why those of us who are fortunate enough to have that support should truly value it. Recently, I spoke with a friend who has been going through a tough time. She doesn’t have anyone in her life to lean on, not even family. It made me realize how much of a privilege it is to have loved ones by your side. While family can sometimes judge us or offer advice we don’t always agree with, they are the people who have been there since we were children, through all the stages of growing up childhood, puberty, adolescence, and adulthood. Their presence is intentional, shaped by genuine care and involvement. Unfortunately, not everyone gets to experience this kind of intentional parenthood or unconditional support.

Family members are uniquely positioned to help us because they know us so well. They’re often more willing to witness our growth, in ways acquaintances or newer relationships rarely can. Sometimes, it’s heartbreaking when someone expects support from family and doesn’t receive it. Talking to my friend made me feel both sympathetic and deeply grateful for my own situation.

If you have a supportive family, cherish them. Life is fleeting just a blink of an eye so it’s important to treat your loved ones well and with gratitude. We all stumble, but as long as we pick ourselves up, apologize, and continue to support each other, we create a life worth celebrating. Communication and understanding are key to keeping these bonds strong.

I once advised a colleague who was having a disagreement with their mother. Although the conversation was difficult, I encouraged them to think long-term. When you achieve success when you have wealth, resources, and time wouldn’t you want to share your happiness with the people who raised you, rather than seeking out new acquaintances who may not appreciate your journey? The people who show up when you’ve already “made it” often don’t value the struggle or history behind your achievements. True family, by contrast, is there in both good times and bad, and their pride in you is genuine.

My colleague took my advice, and while communication remains challenging, they’re happier today reconciled with the people who were there for them when they had nothing and still stand by them as they grow. This realization is wonderful and worth celebrating. So, if you are blessed with a supportive family, treasure them. Appreciate every moment, and remember: having people to share your life with is one of the greatest gifts of all.